“Some of us love the gathering… and some of us love the gathering with a doorway.”
For sensitive or introverted hearts, long gatherings aren’t a sign of love, they are a marathon of energy. Stepping outside for a breath doesn’t mean you don’t want to be there. Leaving early doesn’t mean you don’t care. You are allowed to honor your design without apologizing for it.
The world has taught us that devotion looks loud and long. But some of the most loyal souls show love in quiet bursts of presence, fifteen minutes of full-hearted attention, an honest conversation on the porch, a soft goodbye before the overwhelm hits. This is love too.
Some hearts shine in the center,
others glow near the door.
One is not better,
they’re just different ways to pour.
Gentle practice:
Plan your “exit without shame.”
Decide ahead of time when you’ll leave, breathe, or take space, and let it be holy.
-Kerri-Elizabeth-
Tomorrow we’ll talk about the cost of celebration, and the pressure money brings.
SONSHINE FOR YOU 
Such a thoughtful and gentle reflection—beautifully honors the quiet, heartfelt ways people show love.
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Thank you , it’s a learning time for so many, an uncovering of differences and respect and honor to all.
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Absolutely, I couldn’t agree more. It’s a time for reflection, growth, and embracing diversity with respect and understanding. Learning from each other’s experiences truly enriches us all.
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Exactly, time rearranges things and people, families and communities, feelings, experiences etc and grace is above all needed to all. Thank you my friend for your input and time here.
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Just reading this reminds me of times that I have forced myself to stay beyond my limits. It led to resentment. What you’ve written inspires me to think differently in the future, Kerri.
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