“We do not own anyone’s choice.”

There are moments
when someone decides you are no longer part of their life.

They may blame you.
They may rewrite the story, their way.
They may never return and you may not be ready to accept the return if it comes.

You may want to fix it at times.

Time does not always allow resolution for everyone, it carries a different impact for each individual.

Resolution comes in many forms but requires a synchronisity.

Boundaries dont disappear with resolutions, but they can widen when respected and honored as such.

You cannot force someone
into awareness, healing or readiness.

Their leaving is their process.

Even when it hurts.

You are allowed to grieve it
without chasing it, even if it takes a lifetime.

You are allowed to honor your truth
without defending it, just live it.

We do not own others process or soverienty.
We only our own.

-Kerri-Elizabeth-

Tomorrow: The strength of standing firm.