“Forgiveness frees you, not the relationship.”

Forgiveness is not a reunion.
It does not guarantee closeness.
It does not erase history.
Forgiveness simply removes the emotional bondage that keeps your heart tied to what hurt you.

You can forgive someone and still never speak to them again.
You can release resentment without reopening the door.
You can find peace without forcing connection.
Your heart can soften without losing its discernment.

Let forgiveness be
a warm breath in winter,
gentle, unforced,
expecting nothing in return.

Gentle Practice:
Whisper: “I release you, but I do not return to what harmed me.”

-Kerri-Elizabeth-

Tomorrow: When apologies never come or are expected, how to stop waiting for closure you can give yourself.