By Design

You design your behavior and your attitude.

Kerri Elizabeth

Are you defending yourself for someone who hurt you?

Are you carrying their baggage and giving it value?

Have you spent too much time thinking about someone else’s words?

Are you taking it to heart afterwards?

Has someone else’s voice become the one in your head?

Are you thinking about what they said and carrying it with you on your journey ahead?

Don’t spend precious time trying to change someone else’s unkind ways.

Don’t spend your life in someone else’s haze.

Are you questioning who you are because of someone else’s scars?

Are you holding on to what they need to do, or letting go so you can do what is meant for you?

Have you become someone else’s pain?

Have there actions and words become your campaign?

Will you let go and live who you’re meant to be?

Will you stand up, stomp your feet, and demand to live your right to be free?

Will you stop waiting for someone else’s apology and take the time to change your own terminology?

Will you leave the baggage not meant for you?

Will you live your life and design it too?

If a baggage of mean is left for you mark return to sender it has no value due.

Don’t wait for someone else to fix your place.

You’re in charge of how you design your space.

Be Your Someone

It’s difficult to leave someone, it’s difficult to wait for someone, it’s difficult to forget someone but the strength comes in believing you are someone.

Kerri Elizabeth

A new destination

A new conversation

A new view

New people

A new moment

A new thought

A new day

A new way

Opportunity

Possibility

Live with open eyes; recognize the colors in different skies.

Live with grace every day and say, “I’m sorry” to yourself for getting in your way.

Be the friend you’re looking for.

Be the leader you want and more.

Be the Hero you dream will come.

Don’t wait for someone else to get it done.

Play an instrument you want to play.

Don’t let age or time be a defining factor in your way.

Be open to the possibilities you seek.

Don’t let your life be only a sneak peak.

Be the opportunity for your life to be, even what you can’t yet see.

It’s the things we think we can’t do that we put effort into doing instead of sitting and not improving.

Move with curiosity, live without animosity, create velocity!

The sunshine is never dim, perception comes from within!

Loving You

I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy, I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.

Love all you do!

If you don’t love it, don’t do it.

Did you say easier said than done?

Do you love a fit mind and honor its design?

Do you love your heart for waking you up to a new start?

Do you love how you feel or do you appeal?

Love what you do and do what you love.

Do you honor and love who you are, have you put pressure on where you are so far?

Loving from where you are is the only way you can go far.

Take the time today to remember to say, everything I do is in love for you.

If loving you was all you had to do, life would look different to each of you.

The good news is, it’s true.

When loving you is the first thing you do.

Then love will always be how you deal with other things too.

Love is inside of each of you.

Love is not what you’re used to.

Love is an action.

Love takes compassion.

Loving you is loving others too.

Are you addicted to an attitude a place or substance that keeps you forever from true loving abundance?

An addiction is something that lies to you.

It’s a counterfeit feeling that you give into.

It can be anything you continue to always do and stay the same and ignore loving you.

Love is you!

Give into that, it’s true!

Let the sunshine wherever you go, loving you from head toe!

No Doubt

Where there is love there is no doubt.

It was a Friday night, I called him and he didn’t answer. I didn’t feel right this time.

I knew something wasn’t right.

I made it through the night and woke up early and called again. He didn’t answer right away, a text came through. It said,” I’m fine now, don’t worry”.

What do you mean don’t worry, I thought.

Finally an answer to my call and he said,”don’t worry mom I had 7 blood transfusions, I only had 10% of the blood I was supposed to have to be alive.”

“I’ll be fine though, don’t worry about coming to the hospital, I’ll be out before you get here.” He replied.

You know I was on my way while I said, “sure ok, I won’t worry, no problem.”

Gasping for air, I drove as fast as I could to the hospital.

There he was my heart and soul with a big smile and laughing ear to ear as if nothing was wrong.

That day set the pace for our next year in a half.

Children’s hospital was our home.

I walked away from the life I had, in that moment the only life that mattered was my sons.

His acute lymphoblastic leukemia diagnosis with a chromosome duplication called AMP21 was nothing less than life changing.

Diagnosis: 95% cancer.

Here we go my warrior child, time to rock and roll.

I won’t leave your side, I will never hide.

I will hear you and be with you; I will love you and protect you.

I will learn everything I need to and you’ll know who to lean to.

I’ll cry with you, laugh with you, I’ll sit by you, I’ll never ever leave you.

I’ll whoop you at every board game and I’ll make you work out.

I’ll write out daily goals, I’ll never have a doubt.

I’ll run a marathon daily if that’s what it’s all about.

I’ll run to the store for anything you want and more.

There are no other options but to get you through these doors.

We stayed up all night every single night.

We watched every series and movie, that’s right.

We decided together what he needed for the fight.

Our armor was on, our hearts said go, our mind was in action, we partnered up for this show.

I took notes from the doctors, I fought with the staff, my son will ONLY have time for the best that you have.

We never thought for a minute that there were any options but to win it.

My children took action from each of their places in the war for their brother, no time was wasted.

Every moment took love and patience from each other.

The journey was long and we needed one another.

We had family and friends; I could go on for days for the team that was in place to take on this race.

Invest in your life, reach out and give if you haven’t already learn to forgive.

Life throws us curves and we often aren’t ready, but the army of love will keep you steady.

Love with all your might, let your life ignite.

Be a flame not a flicker.

Live your passion.

Love with action.

Let the sunshine on every interaction.

Get Excited

Get excited

When you wake up get excited.

When you can walk outside, get excited.

When someone calls you get excited.

When someone tells you they want to talk to you, get excited.

When someone smiles at you, get excited.

When the sun shines, get excited.

When the rain falls, get excited.

When you have an opportunity to make something great happen, get excited.

When you can talk to a loved one, get excited.

When you can see a loved one, get excited.

When you have the opportunity to breathe air, get excited.

Get excited, this is YOUR LIFE.

Make life happen or life will happen to you.

Do you want to travel to a new place?

Do you want to take a day off in a new space?

Do you want to start today?

Do you want a better way?

Do you feel happy with your place?

Do you want to jump for joy, then jump.

Do you want to have fun, then have it.

Make a decision today to have the life you dream of every day.

If the thought is I can’t, then can’t it will be.

Start from where you are if what you want seems too far.

Start from this moment, the perfect component.

Start one minute at a time, they all add up to the final climb.

Get excited about your life, live every moment with your greatest advice.

Do you need a change of pace?

Are you tired of the same rat race?

This is your life, get excited.

No matter what the struggle is, it’s showing you there is more to live.

Get excited because you can!
Sun shining on a new plan!

Time and fail

Time is a created thing, to say,“I don’t have time is like saying,” I don’t want to”.

LAO-TZU”

Without fail you will have bad days, don’t run from them they encourage better ways.

Without fail you will have a broken heart, let healing show you a new start.

Without fail, you will experience pain, be thankful for the depth you gain.

Without fail, you will cry, appreciate that and don’t let it slip by.

Without fail you will see something that will change your life, let it move you to new heights.

Without fail, you will experience stress, what a challenge you get to show your best.

Without fail, you will feel the struggle of life, embrace the lesson for it gives you advice.

Time will pass, use it.

Time is precious, don’t lose it.

Time is an experience, learn from it.

Time is a gift, give it.

Time is love, experience it.

Time is joy, embrace it.

Time is learning, hear it.

Time is laughter, share it.

Time is yours what will you do with it?

Tomorrow will come and today will be gone, yesterday passed and it’s time to move on.

Without fail time will pass, will you remember what happen last?

Remember your time and the gift it is, share it, live it, love again, laugh at it, smile with it, and breathe it in!

Shining Sunshine on good and bad days, they’re all a part of teaching us new ways!

Calories

Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself!

Do you weigh yourself by a calorie and define your career by a salary?

Does a scale decide your day and give you what you weigh?

Do you worry about each bite you take and allow that to determine the mood it’ll make?

How do you weigh the words you say, do you make them matter in your day?

How do you measure the time you stay, is it decided by the clock display?

What determines your worth is it numbers and in girth?

A calorie is not just a calorie when you define your day by the numbers you play?

What if you decided your day by the factor of what you say?

What if you decided what you weighed by the density of your day?

What if the numbers on a scale became just an old story to tell?

Who you are is not a number to see.

Who you are is worth more than weight will ever be.

What if you defined the food you eat by the density of the nutrition instead of the weight?

What if you defined your life, by how you lived it and took your own advice?

What if you decided that a calorie is simply just a word and life was going to be lived not just heard.

Live your life with density, and feel the intensity.

Be fearless and wonderfully made, get you’re a@@ out of the shade.

Stand tall with shoulders back, speak with confidence and a matter of fact.

Take the time to eat what serves you, challenges you and moves you.

Stop complaining about the result you get when you base your life on a number bet.

The choice you make daily will show up without a maybe.

No matter what you sneak the person that matters most is always watching up close.

Shining sunshine on you today, live your life to win it not to just be in it!

Team

THERE IS NO “I” IN TEAM BUT THERE IS IN WIN!

Michael Jodan

The stadium is lit there are players in line.

They know their position, their plan is aligned.

There are players that play the hardest moves and others that can watch and help you improve.

Do you bench one and leave them sitting to watch, do you know what they’re thinking about the boss?

Are they fighting and pushing and shoving their way, or loving and listening so they can stay?

Take the time to honor and develop great action, they can be a guide for a better reaction.

Let the strongest player lead the way, teaching them all how to play.

When the lights go out, let the players rest, after a long day of teaching them to be their best.

You have your mind, body and spirit, observe the decisions and posture you choose to direct these team members never to lose.

A loss can be a lesson to define, making it a win by design!

Gather your team for the best day ever the only choice you get is now or never!

Never give up and strive for your best and remember you always have more than you guessed.

Confidence, acceptance, courage and stride, the authentic hero is always inside.

The team is in place and set for a win, are you sitting on the bench or ready to begin?

Shining sunshine on your day!

This Moment

Don’t wait for the perfect moment, take the moment and make it perfect!

Zoey Sayward

This moment is here.

This moment is real.

This moment is mine.

This moment is now.

This moment will pass.

This moment will change.

This moment is big.

This moment is clear.

THIS MOMENT IS YOURS WHAT WILL YOU DO?

Every moment matters,you know this too.

Every moment you get to choose.

Every moment, you have a voice, let it carry you with rejoice.

Take the moment and make it big, you only get one chance to live.

Every moment links to another, create them on a canvas of forever!

Don’t miss this moment!

Give a hug

Always love

Say thank you

I forgive you

I miss you

I care about you

Give a compliment

Open a door

Smile

Lend a hand and

Do your best for all the rest.

Clearing the clouds for sunshine to come in, take this moment and make it a win!

The Voice

“Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people.”
― Spencer Johnson

YES OR NO (or do you hear, you can’t or not sure?)

I WILL OR I WON’T (or do you hear I think I can?)

 I AM A WONDERFUL PERSON (or do you hear I used to be?)

 I CAN AND YOU CAN TOO (or do you hear, ya right she can but you can’t?)

 I KNOW AND WON’T EVER FORGET (or do you hear, you forget everything?)

 I WILL FIND OUT, I WANT TO KNOW (or do you hear I could never figure that out?)

I LOVE NO MATTER WHAT (or do you hear, I used to love all the way but I was hurt and now I can’t.)

 I LIVE AND LEARN (or do you hear I live but I’m not living ?)

 I LAUGH AND LOVE EXCITEMENT (or do you hear I used to laugh all the time?)

 IT’S WONDERFUL AND YOU WON’T CHANGE MY MIND (or do you hear I think that’s wonderful but..?)

Do you hear the constant voice that argues with what you really want, and who you are?

What if you stopped arguing and just showed that voice the truth?

What if you joined arms with that voice and showed it you can too?

What if instead of fighting you just said,”I love you and I’m sorry you were hurt, but you’re safe with me now?”

What if you screamed at the top of a mountain to that voice,“I will grab your hand and show you it’s wonderful, glorious and amazing here?”

What if all you had to do is join together with that voice and give it a yes or no and be clear and concise?

What if all you had to do is teach it to love no matter what?

How do you feel when you’re left behind?

How about if you honored that voice and cheered it on?

I LOVE THAT VOICE THAT CHALLENGES ME.

I LOVE THAT VOICE THAT PUSHES ME TO DO MORE.

I WILL NURTURE THAT VOICE AND STOP TALKING BEHIND ITS BACK.

I WILL LOVE THAT VOICE AND HONOR IT AND TEACH IT WHAT THE TRUTH IS AND STOP LEAVING IT MAD.

I WILL SHOW THAT VOICE AND LEAD THAT VOICE AND GIVE IT A SAFE PLACE TO BE APART OF MY LIFE.

I WILL GRAB A HOLD OF THAT VOICE AND LOVE IT AND HUG IT AND TEACH IT, THIS IS A SAFE PLACE TO BE.

There is always Sunshine, be the solution not the problem!